heaviness
Proverbs 14:10 The heart knows his own bitterness; and a stranger does not intermeddle with his joy.
Proverbs 15:13,15,23 A merry heart makes a cheerful countenance: but by sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken...
Proverbs 17:22 A merry heart does good like a medicine: but a broken spirit dries the bones.
Proverbs 18:14 The spirit of a man will sustain his infirmity; but a wounded spirit who can bear?
Nehemiah 2:1,2 And it came to pass in the month Nisan, in the twentieth year of Artaxerxes the king, that wine was before him: and I took up the wine...
Psalm 38:6 I am troubled; I am bowed down greatly; I go mourning all the day long.
Psalm 42:11 Why are you cast down, O my soul? and why are you disquieted within me? hope you in God: for I shall yet praise him...
Mark 14:33,34 And he takes with him Peter and James and John, and began to be sore amazed, and to be very heavy...
but
Proverbs 12:18 There is that speaks like the piercings of a sword: but the tongue of the wise is health.
Proverbs 15:23 A man has joy by the answer of his mouth: and a word spoken in due season, how good is it!
Proverbs 16:24 Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones.
Proverbs 25:11 A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.
Proverbs 27:9 Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart: so does the sweetness of a man's friend by hearty counsel.
Isaiah 50:4 The Lord GOD has given me the tongue of the learned, that I should know how to speak a word in season to him that is weary...
Zechariah 1:13 And the LORD answered the angel that talked with me with good words and comfortable words.
2 Corinthians 2:4-7 For out of much affliction and anguish of heart I wrote to you with many tears; not that you should be grieved...